First Impressions Last - How to Avoid First Date Mistakes

Let's face it, you only get one shot at making a first impression.

That's why if you want to take things further with a woman, you'll need to show her your best on the very first date and show off a glimpse of magic that will keep you on her mind for days to come.

To do this you will first have to avoid these FIRST DATE MISTAKES which will totally screw up your chances of ever seeing that woman again. These are mistakes that men make consistently and the sad part is, they think they're doing it right!

First Date Mistake #1 - BEING TOO SERIOUS The reason why you are going on a date with this woman is because she believes you are going to be fun to hang around with. Woman do not go on dates to be bored to death - even if they get a free meal. Keep a friendly and relaxed vibe. Feel free to joke around a bit as if she is one of your best friends. The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she will be. Which is a good thing, believe me.

First Date Mistake #2 - WHAT'S WITH ALL THE QUESTIONS? There is a fine line between taking interest in somebody and conducting an interview. Feel free to ask questions but don't get caught up in the trap of asking the same questions that every guy has asked her already (What do you do for a living?, What music do you like? Etc). Talk like you have known each other since school and keep the conversation light hearted and fun. Keep the deep conversations for later.

First Date Mistake #3 - BORING! The easiest way to avoid a boring date is to choose a FUN VENUE. Avoid the boring restaurants that will add even more pressure to the first date. Choose fun places like the zoo, ice skating, mini golf or the carnival. The more fun you have together, the more memorable the date.

First Date Mistake #4 - APPEARING NEEDY It's common for men to come across needy and too direct on first dates. Quite often men try too hard and lean into her personal space looking for reassurance. Ironically it is the opposite that usually has the best benefits. I'm not saying don't put any effort in, but if you can lean back, stay calm and relaxed you will appear suave and mysterious. Add a little bit of cheeky charm and you will be unstoppable!

Last First Date Mistake - SAME SH*T, DIFFERENT GUY The secret to making a date memorable is to make it unique, or at least appear unique to her. If you buy her flowers, take her to a fancy restaurant before a walk by the river, the chances are someone has done that before. Either another first date or her ex boyfriend. It is up to you to give her a unique experience that will keep in her mind for days. A killer end to a good first date and the best way to keep her thinking of you for days is to end the date like an episode of Heroes. Leave on a cliff-hanger. Tell her a story or a joke and leave without finishing. Come up with a reason to leave suddenly like a friend has an emergency and you have to go help them out. This will guarantee that she will be thinking about you and will leave her wanting more.

In essence, there are many factors that could lead to a successful first date, having a great idea for the date helps you many of them naturally. Remember, you only get one shot at a first impression and where you take a woman on a first date could lead to a GREAT night or DISASTER.

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